Monday, July 19, 2010
Right?
Friday, January 29, 2010
Rose-Colored Flashback
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Homos and things of that nature...
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Superhead a.k.a. Karrine Steffans..SMH
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Michael's Gone...
Friday, May 29, 2009
"I need a man to define me!" & "But I love him!"
Okay not too long ago my favorite gossip blog, BOSSIP, posted an item about Kim Khardisian. Have a look:
Kim recently fueled rumors she is getting engaged to her boyfriend, American football player Reggie Bush, when she admitted she had been looking for an engagement ring with her friends. The couple only celebrated their two year anniversary in last month, but divorcee Kim is determined to marry the New Orleans Saints running back. She said: ‘He definitely knows all of us went ring shopping. I definitely scared… …him and told it was probably way more expensive than it is, just so that when he goes he feels like he’s getting a good deal. ‘He knows what it looks like. I think I’ve emailed him enough pictures.’
(bossip.com)
Seriously Kim? Come on now! Sadly she's not the worst I've heard. There are lots of women out there DYING to be married. Maybe Kim is desperate because she's kind of a 'why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free' type of a girl, but even so, desperation will NOT help. I repeat, DESPERATION WILL NOT HELP. If the man wanted to marry you, he would have proposed already...obviously, he ain't ready. No wonder movies like 'He's just not that into you' are so popular.
On the flipside, there are young girls and women who just cannot be by themselves. I know this one girl who used to my best friend (we cool but you know...people drift), she CANNOT be by herself for the life of her. If she was by herself, it was like she was deprived or some shit. Everytime I turned around she had somebody new (I think she's still with the last dude she told me about so maybe she's settled down...highly doubting it though). I mean damn...is a man THAT necessary to you people? I love men like the next heterosexual female but they're not my everything...trust me that ends badly. However, you can even find that shit on FACEBOOK. You know...them females that put 'married' as their status? Unless there's a ring, fuck outta here with that mess. STOP IT! STOP IT RIGHT NOW! I have to say this because desperate females don't know they're coming off desperate. Of course there are degrees of desperation: low/medium/severe, but desperation in any measure is NOT sexy.
Switching gears! I was reading the June issue of Essence magazine and they had an article about Battered women. You'd be surprised at the shit that women miss when it comes to men. I'm not gonna judge because I've learned first hand that in some situations, you can't speak on it unless you've been in it. HOWEVER, there were some stories in Esssence from black women who were with abusers; the signs they spoke about would give any woman with an ounce of self-worth the urge to RUN. All I can say is, love makes you do dumb/irrational things. I've been around dudes who seemed to have no qualms about hitting women and distanced myself one time. Now, I know the Essence article was to bring awareness about the issue and to send the message that women should not suffer in silence; but I think all of this pain and heartache can be avoided if you PAY ATTENTION. A lot of females do not pay attention to the things dudes say or their actions. Sometimes, you don't ask the right questions. That is IMPORTANT.
Saturday, May 16, 2009
ANTM Post: Teyona Wins! Paulina Fired...Calls Tyra a Late Bitch
“I must admit I was having a little bit of an issue with Tyra being late for every judging,” she told Billy. “It’s six hours later and I feel like I am being told my time is not as valuable as hers. They pointed out that I should shut up and be grateful for the job and that Tyra is really busy.”
“I think that my little hissy fits about ‘Well, we are all here on time. Why can’t she (Tyra)?’ didn’t go over all that well,” added Paulina, who replaced the previous judge, supermodel Twiggy. When asked if there might have been an issue that she was the only other woman on the judging panel, Paulina said she didn’t think that was the case, especially when it comes to Tyra. “I don’t think that in Tyra’s universe that’s even a consideration. I don’t think she cares,” she said. “I’m not even sure she was aware that I existed way out there in Siberia, much like I am not sure she knew Twiggy existed.”
And while Paulina and Tyra clearly didn’t get along in the professionallandscape, did the two have any off-camera conversations? “I wouldn’t know [what kind of person Tyra is] because all I know of her is literally when we are on set talking to each other in front of the cameras,” the supermodel said. “That is the only time she would speak to me.” As previously reported on AccessHollywood.com, Paulina first revealed the news of their squabble during an appearance on the “Late Late Show” with Craig Ferguson earlier this week. “Listen, do you know why I am in Los Angeles?… Because I am looking for a job,” Paulina told Craig. “I was fired by ‘America’s Next Top Model’ on my birthday.”